CENTRO
DE BACHILLERATO TECNOLÓGICO industrial y de servicios. No 26
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Grade: 3° Group: “E”
Name
of the student: López
Herrera Carolina
Number
list: 24
Teaching: M. C. Fausto Guzmán Ortiz
Type
of test: Scientific essay
Trial
title:
Dads, why not accept my
homosexuality?
Date
of delivery: 07/10/16
First
unit
Theme:
The rejection of homosexuality
in the family
Name
of the subject: Biology
Index
This
essay was written in order that the issue of homosexuality is present; in which
stand out, why, in the family most often they reject homosexual persons; They
carry with them different circumstances, where they undergo a series of events,
it will change the relationship between them it was and usually not the same.
"If
we can not end our indifference, we contribute to make the world a fit place
for them."
Jonh
F. Keneddy
This
essay was written in order that the issue of homosexuality is present; in which
stand out, why, in the family most often they reject homosexual persons; They
carry with them different circumstances, where they undergo a series of events,
it will change the relationship between them it was and usually not the same.
"If
we can not end our differences, we contribute to make the world a fit place for
them."
Jonh F. Keneddy
In the
family it has had misconceptions about homosexuality that have passed from
generation to generation.
What
makes all these absurdities arise ideals is little diffusion of what really is
homosexuality and the limited information that comes to us, it is totally
transformed and full of prejudices.
It
aims, to increase awareness about this issue, addressing society in general, to
continue not falling into this kind of prejudice for lack of information, which
leads to discrimination against these people.
70% of
homosexuals have suffered rejection by his family.
But
they have asked, Why are rejected homosexuals in the family?
Dads
why they reject me?
The
revelation of homosexuality in the family, in most cases accompanied by a
moment of crisis.
A
homosexual person is one who is sexually attracted, physically and emotionally,
by another person of the same sex. "Homosexuality comes from the Greek
homo (" equal ") and Latin sexus (" sex ")" (Porto,
2014, para 2).
People
who hide their sexual inclination must live a double life, in the environment
(gathering place for homosexuals) and another within the family should also
socialize in two different ways, but perhaps they are completely contradictory.
The live this life for some homosexuals, carries a psychic and physical
expenditure. (Solano, 1998, para 40)
The
family presents a situation where it is hiding the homosexual inclination and
some of its members, which is discussed between keeping or not the
"secret".
Reserved it supposed secret and hidden while away from sight and comment from others and shared by few, (...). In this determines the household series of coalitions and partnerships between some members, to the exclusion of others .(Acuna, 1998, para 26)
No one
has defined a pattern of how to react a family, to the news of one of its
members is homosexual; the vast majority are usually children. They may feel a
great rejection at the beginning, because this news comes as a surprise and a
crisis erupts between close members; when thinking about the alleged
consequences they bring to their lives.
For lack of family affection, accepting gays being what they are, go unnoticed in your family, as in they do not find enough advice or support.
Discrimination
by the family, is seen mainly focused on the lack of attention they paid to gay
people, excluding them from the family nucleus, thus giving a contempt just for
being "different" and wanting to hide from society what actually he
is or wants to become (Anonymous, Sexual Diversity: Gay, 2016, para 6).
Gay
teenagers rejected by their families are eight times more likely to attempt
suicide three times more than taking drugs when they become young adults in
relation to those who did receive support. Among the key findings, noted that
family rejection results in eight times more likely to have attempted suicide,
nearly six times as possible for depression and three times more drugs, of HIV
infection and of disease transmission sexual. (Anonymous, young homosexuals
rejected by family, 2010, para 2.8)
This
project was led by Ryan professor at the University of San Francisco (Family
Accptence), in the state of California and presented in Madrid.
After
several stages as: denial, bargaining, acceptance, you end up accepting
homosexuality, but not completely.
It
is evident that gays do not have the support or the father or mother for their
relations, which rather cause a rift. Own children end up perceiving those
relationships as a cause of alienation from family togetherness.(Ruitenbeek,
1987, p. 123)
When
the family does not want to accept this situation, it is fully closed,
forsaking both physically and emotionally children, since it will no longer be
a parent to help them when they have economic problems, nor will a mother who
take refuge when they have some trouble or problem, but contrary to that, they
will meet with reproaches or simply the absence of an answer.
So
also there would be a double embarrassment, since on the one hand all
expectations for the son who would continue the descent through the
grandchildren are lost, and also its regulatory structure suffers a blow to
break the basic rule it was based only in heterosexual practices.
This
moment of unveiling majority tends to be very negative; one of the most
anticipated attitudes of the family has to do with the law of ice, through
indifference or denial have known about the condition of homosexuality, the
family continues to make their daily and routine activities, classifying the
homosexuality as a taboo subject and no man can speak; overriding it and
treating it as an immature and irresponsible the right to decide to have a
relationship with someone person, either deliberately allowed to manifest their
tastes and eccentricities, is censorship.(Martinez, 2011, p. 111)
Many
times and product of these attitudes, homosexuals begin to isolate themselves
from their families and their environment, feeling highly misunderstood and
discriminated against by the family.
In
Mexico, one in two people gay lesbian and bisexual believes that the main
problem facing is discrimination, followed by the lack of acceptance and
criticism and ridicule, according to the latest National Survey on
Discriminación2010. And they perceive more intolerance police (42.8%) and
people of your church or congregation (35.3%). In contrast, they find that they
are tolerant of their friends (82.9%), family (75.4%) and health services
(57.7%), according to the survey by the National Council to Prevent
Discrimination (Conapred). (Guarneros, 2013, para 12)
Rejection,
always begins with the family as they go through a crisis situation, feeling
great disappointment, because comes as a surprise that hurts the gay person as
rejection by those who should provide the greatest support are denied and it is
for that reason in falling into depression and even to the suicide.
It
aims, to increase awareness about this issue, addressing society in general, to
continue not falling into this kind of prejudice for lack of information, which
leads to discrimination against these people.
In
conclusion, the formulated hypothesis is taken as zero; as marked statistics
vary, and the percentage is less than that was raised at the beginning.
For
lack of affection and support, homosexuals tend to be excluded from the
household, society wanting to hide what they are; leading a quieter life and a
more complex interaction; sometimes they come to idealize suicidal thoughts
because of the rejection they receive in the family.
Acuña, N. (20 de Noviembre de 1998). La marginación de
los homosexuales en el ámbito familiar. Obtenido de monografias.com: http://m.monografias.com/trabajos14/homosexuales/homosexuales.shtml
Anónimo. (11 de Mayo de
2010). Los jovenes homosexuales rechazados por familia. Obtenido de Los
jóvenes homosexuales rechazados por familia,más inclinados al suicidio: http://www.semana.com/mundo/articulo/los-jovenes-homosexuales-rechazados-familia-mas-inclinados-suicidio/116554-3
Anónimo. (6 de 10 de
2016). Diversidad Sexual: Gay. Obtenido de La aceptación o rechazo de la
familia: http://diversegay.blogspot.mx/2008/11/la-aceptacin-o-rechazo-de-la-familia_13.html?m=1
Guarneros, R. M. (17 de
Mayo de 2013). El temor al rechazo. Obtenido de Las burlas y
discriminación:
http://expansion.mx/salud/2013/05/17/jovenes-homosexuales-se-enfrentan-al-cuestionamiento-publico-en-mexico
Martínez, D. R. (18 de
Mayo de 2011). bibliotecadigital. Obtenido de HOMOSEXUALIDAD Y FAMILIA:
http://bibliotecadigital.academia.cl/bitstream/handle/123456789/214/Tesis%20Final.pdf;jsessionid=F9C5FF9F72BB523D190A8FF5338759EA?sequence=1
Porto, J. P. (24 de
Agosto de 2014). Definición de. Obtenido de Definicón de homosexualidad:
http://definicion.de/homosexualidad/
Ruitenbeek, J. (1987). Desarollo
Familiar. Barcelona: Chicago.
Solano, M. (20 de
Noviembre de 1998). La marginación de los homosexuales en el ámbito
familiar, laboral y educativo en costa rica. Obtenido de monografias.com:
http://m.monografias.com/trabajos14/homosexuales/homosexuales.shtml
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